Giving the Gift of Literacy to New Parents

As I mentioned yesterday, the third annual Share a Story - Shape a Future literacy blog tour is happening this week. This year's theme is Unwrapping the Gift of Literacy. Today's specific theme is about giving the gift of literacy. Dawn Little, today's host, asked me to write something about giving the gift of literacy to new parents. This is something that I have now experienced as giver and recipient, and I jumped at the chance to participate. [Image credit: SAS logo designed by Elizabeth O. Dulemba]

Giving books to new parents is, I think, one of the highest yield ways there is to give the gift of literacy. There's a reason that organizations like RIF, Reach Out and Read and Dolly Parton's Imagination Library, among others, focus on giving books to infants and preschoolers. Children who have books of their own are much more likely to learn to love reading than children who don't. And kids who grow up loving books later reap many rewards, from improved literacy to enhanced imaginations to better math skills. [I'm not sure there are any studies about the enhanced imaginations part, but I'll bet it's true.]

If I were a fairy godmother, I would bless children with the gift of loving books. As a regular old godmother, aunt, and friend, I do what I can by giving books. I buy books for baby showers, christenings, and birthday parties. And you can, too.

I will admit that I have an advantage here. As a reviewer, and now as a parent, I read a lot of picture books. I read blogs where people recommend picture books. I see the ALA and Cybils awards lists every year. I subscribe to Horn Book Magazine, and various newsletters. It's easy for me to come up with a few high quality titles, titles that are a bit out of the mainstream. Titles that the new baby would likely not have received otherwise. I belive that it's my job to get those titles into new parents' hands.

But even if you aren't out there keeping up with all of the newest picture book releases, you are qualified to pick books to give to new parents. Pick the books that you loved most as a child, or that you enjoyed reading to your children. Or ask a librarian or bookstore associate for help. Tell the new parent why you chose these books. I promise, this information makes the gift even more special.

Whether the books you're giving will be the only ones that the family receives, or whether yours will be one of hundreds, you can't go wrong by giving books. I don't believe that it's possible for a child to have too many books - the parents can always donate or share them with others later, as the child grows older. Hardcover picture books are nice as gifts because they make good keepsakes. But board books and cloth books can used right away, chewed and loved and looked and tucked into the diaper bag. I like to give a mix of both.

Here are a few titles that I've been giving to new parents lately, and/or that we received for our baby and particularly enjoyed (I'm leaving off the really obvious classics, though are usually be good choices, too):

Board Books/Cloth Books

• Begin Smart Baby Faces (great for brand new babies - the first thing that our baby really looked at)
• Begin Smart Animal Faces (cloth book with attached rattle - the first thing that our baby reached for, and still a cherished favorite)
• Who Do You See: My First Taggie Book (cloth book with tags and a mirror - much loved for the animal images and as a pillow)
• Each Peach Pear Plumb by Janet and Allan Ahlberg (review)
• Kiss Good Night by Amy Hest (ill. Anita Jeram) (review)
• Any of Leslie Patricelli's board books, like Yummy Yucky
• ABC Baby Me by Susan B. Katz (ill. Alicia Padron)
• Tacky the Penguin by Helen Lester (ill. Lynn Munsinger)

Picture Books

• Blueberry Girl by Neil Gaiman (ill. Charles Vess) (especially good for girls)
• The Goodnight Train by June Sobel (ill. Laura Huliska-Beith) (review)
• Little Fur Family by Margaret Wise Brown (ill. Garth Williams) (review)
• Ten Little Fingers and Ten Little Toes by Mem Fox (ill. Helen Oxenbury)
• Click Clack Moo: Cows that Type by Doreen Cronin (ill. Betsy Lewin) (I especially like to give this one to parents who are on the computer a lot)
• Scaredy Squirrel by Melanie Watt (kids love his smiling, timid face)
• Anything at all by Mo Willems

I also like to give new parents a copy of Jim Trelease's The Read-Aloud Handbook (reviewed here). The early chapters make a strong case for why parents should read aloud and why they should start early. Jim Trelease writes from the perspective of a parent (and now grandparent). A parent somewhat obsessive on the topic of reading aloud, sure, but still, a parent. This makes The Read-Aloud Handbook a good starting point for people.

Of course there are other great books out there for parents looking to nurture young readers, like Esme Raji Codell's How to Get Your Child to Love Reading and Mem Fox's Reading Magic, among other titles. If you already know that the new parents are actively seeking to raise a reader, one of these books would be an excellent choice, too.  

A Note for New Parents and Parents-To-Be

You can help the people who care about you to give your child the gift of literacy. My daughter, our first child, was born last year. The people who knew me best knew that the thing I would most want for my baby was books. But I was afraid that some of them would be paralyzed by the idea that I must already have a lot of picture books, books that they wouldn't want to duplicate. And in truth, my library was missing many classics.

So what I did was made a wish list for Baby Bookworm on Amazon, and linked to it from my more traditional baby gift registry (and from my blog, and from a footer in my personal emails). I wasn't trying to drum up gifts, you understand, but if there were people out there who wanted to buy my baby books, I wanted to make it easy for them to see what we needed.

We ended up having a lovely "book shower" thrown by some of my fabulous blog friends (special thanks to Terry for organizing and to Sarah, shown here, for collecting and delivering the books). We also received books from high school friends, college friends, relatives, and even a few people I met through Twitter.

Baby Bookworm now has this fabulous library, with books from people from all different stages of my husband's and my lives. I get a bit teary-eyed just thinking about it. I wrote the giver's name in each book, too. Whenever I read a book to Baby Bookworm, I tell her where the book came from. This makes our far-flung friends and relatives feel closer.

Of course you don't have to use Amazon - I'm sure that your local independent would be happy to set up a wish list, too. Or you could do what my business partner did, and create a little web page of your own with a list of books that you want (or list the ones that you already have). The point is, if you let people know that you're interested in books, and you make it easy for them to select books, you can help people to give your child the gift of literacy.  

In Closing...

One of the most meaningful and lasting gifts that you can give to new parents is to support their children's future literacy. You don't have to be a blogger or a literacy advocate or a librarian to do this. All you have to be is willing to take the time to pick out a few books. Choose books you loved as a child. Choose this year's Caldecott winners. Choose whatever catches your eye at your local bookstore. Don't worry too much about what books the new parents might already have (duplicates can always be shared or traded with friends). Just get out there and give books. They're fun to buy, easy to wrap and ship, and can last for years. And the real gift that you're giving, supporting the child's love of books, well, that lasts a lifetime.  

I hope that you'll visit Dawn Little's blog, Literacy Toolbox, for links to today's other posts. Happy reading! Thanks for stopping by for Share a Story - Shape a Future 2011.

Comments

[Dawn Morris]

Thanks for providing us with a little peek into your life as a mom and avid reader. Your little one is so lucky to already be surrounded by great books.

As I write this, I see one of our family favorites, Jamberry, on your sidebar. My children loved it so much that we brought it everywhere, and now I still carry it in my heart.

I miss those days now that my children are older, so I'm glad you're enjoying them so much. Children grow up all too fast, but the memories that come along with sharing extraordinary picture books never fade. Happy reading!

[Birthdayblog]

I love the idea to set up a wish list on Amazon! I have often felt that our family doesn't buy my children books because they feel they have everything. Love it!

This past Christmas we bought book gifts for all the little ones in our family and for friends' children. I have never looked forward to giving a Christmas presents to them before. With the amount toys kids get around the holidays our gifts always seemed to get lost in the shuffle.

I bought my nephew who loves to draw - Ed Emberley books. I bought my niece Pink Me Up by Charise Mericle Harper and included all the things to Pink Up her daddy. My best friend's son just turned 1 and I bought him The Christmas Giant by Steve Light.

Thank you so much for sharing your ideas.

[Judy Cox]

Excellent post. I was the "book aunt" for my nieces and nephews and gave them books for birthdays and Christmas. They all grew up to be great readers; not that I can take all the credit! I also attended a book shower where the mom-to-be was given a darling painted bookshelf and the guests each brought a favorite book.
I've enjoyed your other posts, too. I see we like a lot of the same books!

[Jen Robinson]

Thanks, Dawn! Jamberry was a gift from Colleen Mondor, and we often carry it around in the diaper bag.

It's fun to be the Book Aunt, isn't it, Birthdayblog? What I like to think is that even when the books aren't the most immediately exciting ones in the stack, they'll be among the most appreciated long-term. I just shipped a package of books off to a surrogate nephew who has a birthday today.

Judy, that book shower sounds lovely. I like the idea of the bookshelf, and everyone bringing their favorite books. Mine was a lovely basket, which we still use to keep a selection of books readily accessible in Baby Bookworm's playspace.

[Terry Doherty]

Thanks Jen, for creating such a wonderful starter library ... and filling up that shelf Judy referred to.

Have you read Pam Allyn's What to Read When? Like Esme's book, it is a wonderfully accessible guide for folks who feel stymied by all the options!

[Jen Robinson]

Hi Terry,

I have not had a chance to read Pam's book yet, though I do have a copy of it beckoning me from my shelf. Thanks for the reminder!

[Book Chook]

When I think back to the books I owned as a child (not many) each holds a special place in my heart. If I looked at them from a writer/book reviewer's perspective today, I would perhaps not give them the literary thumbs up. Yet they were MINE - mine to read over and over, mine to lug up to the tree house, mine to share with friends. Though I love libraries, I think book ownership is incredibly powerful - and that makes the gift of books very precious. Thanks for teasing this out Jen and I hope many children reap the benefits!

[amy m]

Oh, JEN! What a super-awesome post! I love these book ideas for new parents, and I adore the idea of setting up an Amazon wish list for books!!

Fabulous ideas and so well-written, my friend!

[Dawn Little]

I love how you chose books that aren't part of the "typical" book gift repertoire. I also recommend if you have older children in your life to have them help pick books for gifts. We recently gave my niece a basket of books for her baby shower, in which I included The Read Aloud Handbook (of course), but I also asked my children to pick two or three of their favorites.

Thank you so much, Jen, for participating today and sharing your gift of reading!

[Melissa Taylor]

Yeah! Wonderful post, Jen! I love your idea to register at Amazon for books.

I really like that Mem Fox book to give to new parents, it's fast and accessible.

Thanks for the great suggestions all around.

[Jen Robinson]

Thank you, Book Chook. I do think that book ownership is a valuable thing. There's a pride of ownership, and there's the fact that availability makes it more likely that the book will be read. If this post could encourage even one person to give books a new parent, especially a new parent who wouldn't have received them anyway, then that's a great day's work.

Amy and Melissa, thank you. I'm glad that people like the Amazon wish list idea. I was a little unsure when I was first setting it up, but it worked so well. We only received a couple of duplicate books for our baby, and she has such a wonderful library now!

Dawn, thank you for including me. And I love your suggestion of including older kids in the decision of which books to buy for people. I'm going to remember that!

[Tif]

Great post and I agree 100%!! I am known for buying books for baby showers and though I have my go-to books (typically Boynton board books), I always like to try to throw in another author just for fun. Lately, it's Mo!!

[BookLovingBoys]

I love these ideas for new parents. I also got teary-eyed reading about the Baby Bookworm "book shower." What a lucky little one to be surrounded by a library of books already. I truly believe that book ownership is important and studies seem to indicate that it is so as well. Children in homes with more than 500 books tend to be more successful. There are many factors that probably play into that. Certainly though, having parents that care so much about fostering a love of reading cannot hurt!

Okay, I'm still misty-eyed about the fact that you were showered with books. Thanks for sharing!

[Chris (@book_dads_]

These are great recommendations and something I wish I had 23 months ago when my first daughter was born! We got a book at the hospital from RIF which my daughter still likes to read: Alphabet Zoo. It's a cute little board book with the animals doing silly things, alligators eating apples and things like that.

I also highly recommend Pam Allyn's book - it's an excellent resource organized by age and subject.

[Jen Robinson]

The Boynton board books are an excellent shower choice, Tif. And of course Mo is always fun.

Trina, I agree with you completely about book ownership. So, so important. And thanks for caring about my book shower. I am very lucky!

Chris, thanks for the Alphabet Zoo recommendation - I'll have to check that out. And I really must read Pam Allyn's book. I got a copy a while back, and just haven't had any time... Thanks for your great work for #SAS2011!

[Books for Little Hands]

A great post on sharing the gift of literacy with new parents! I think the baby book shower is a wonderful idea! Books can often be overlooked when parents are buying the cot, car seat, and everything that a new baby requires.

I love your blog by the way, and it looks like I'll be busy for hours reading your fabulous posts. My blog is called Books for Little Hands if you'd like to come for a visit :)

[Jen Robinson]

Thanks so much! I appreciate the feedback. I agree that it's easy to overlook books for new babies, but I personally think they are as essential as anything else. Certainly I started collecting books for my daughter long before I had anything else ;-) I will certainly stop by your blog!